一、自立意识。人本来就是独立的、主动的、可发展的个体,只有放手让孩子去做,去想,去努力,从小培养孩子什么都不要依赖别人的意识,从小学会自理,学会自我保护,独立思考,随机应变,才能使孩子逐渐形成独立的观念,并以丰富的经验和坚强的意志去迎接未来的挑战。二、合作意识。真正的合作并不是我们传统意义上的那种一味服从和忍让,而是在彼此独立的基础上充分发挥各自的优势,为了共同的目标进行相互协商、相互沟通从而取得最大功效的过程。为了培养孩子的合作意识,应当多引导孩子参加集体性的游戏;让孩子学习容纳 First, self-awareness. People are always independent, active and developable individuals. They only let their children do it, think about it and work hard. From childhood, they should not rely on other people’s consciousness. They should learn how to protect themselves, think independently, and act according to circumstances. Only in this way can children gradually form an independent concept and meet their challenges in the future with rich experience and strong will. Second, the sense of cooperation. True cooperation is not the process of obeying and tolerating blindly in our traditional sense but of giving full play to each other’s strengths on the basis of mutual independence and achieving the maximum effectiveness through mutual consultation and mutual communication for common goals. In order to cultivate children’s sense of cooperation, children should be guided more to participate in collective games; let children learn to accommodate