所谓家规,简单地说就是家庭成员共同遵守的道德行为准则。家规教育,就是家长通过良好行为规范的训练,有目的地教育孩子遵守一定的道德行为准则,从而培养孩子良好行为习惯的一种家庭教育手段。制定家规,并非用条条框框去约束孩子的手脚,限制孩子的发展,而是在鼓励和培养孩子充分发挥自己的创造力和创新精神的同时,教育和引导孩子用正确的行为规范来调节和控制自己的行为;在促进孩子个性发展的同时,要求孩子遵守公共秩序和公共道德规范;在日常生活中,养成良好稳固的行为习惯。因此,家规教育是一种长期的、潜移默化的教育。一、家规教育必须建立在平等、民主的基础之上。家庭成员间要体现平等的关系,家规教 So-called house rules, in simple terms, are the code of ethical behavior that family members follow. Family rules education is a kind of family education that parents train through good codes of conduct and purposefully educate their children to abide by certain moral and behavioral norms so as to cultivate good behavior habits of children. Instead of using the rules and regulations to restrict the hands and feet of children and limit the development of their children, they should encourage and train their children to give full play to their creativity and creativity while educating and guiding children to regulate and control themselves with proper codes of conduct Behavior; to promote children’s personality development at the same time, require children to comply with public order and public morality; in daily life, develop good and steady behavior. Therefore, family education is a long-term, subtle education. First, family planning education must be based on equality and democracy. Family members should embody equality and family discipline