为什么“耐心说服”不如“打骂”管用?我家是男宝宝,13个月大。我对孩子的教育观念一直是主张说教和引导,不主张打骂。从孩子一出生我就对他说理,用正确的、肯定的、鼓励的语气和他说话。我知道当时孩子是听不懂的,最多能听懂妈妈的语气,肯定不明白妈妈的话的意思。我之所这样做是因为我曾经看过一个观点:说人的记忆就像一堆沙子。只要是见到的、听到的都会像一粒粒(?)只是有些沙子被埋在了最底层,显示不出来,当风吹过,或出现其 Why “patiently persuade ” not as “beating curse ” control? My family is a male baby, 13 months old. My concept of children’s education has always been advocating preaching and guidance, not advocating beatings. As soon as the child was born I talked to him and spoke to him in the right, positive, encouraging tone. I know that children do not understand at that time, can understand the tone of mother at most, certainly do not understand the meaning of mother’s words. This is what I did because I once read the point that human memory is like a pile of sand. As long as you see, you will hear like a grain (?) Just some of the sand is buried in the bottom, does not show up, when the wind blows, or appear