作为班主任,在跟家长交流时,听到最多的可能就是家长们殷切的眼神看着我们说:老师,拜托您多关注我家孩子。特别是在一年级刚入学的第一次家长会后,很多家长会主动留下来,跟班主任聊一聊自己孩子的情况,以便老师尽快熟悉自己的孩子,并给予更多的关注。我们当然可以理解家长们的心情,但时代在变化,421的家庭模式使得今天的孩子实际上被“关注过度”。在教育的过程中,我越来越发现,有些孩子渴望被关注,有些孩子渴望不 As a class teacher, in communicating with parents, the most likely thing to hear is that parents look at us ardently and say: Teacher, please pay more attention to our children. In particular, after the first Parents’ Admission to the first year of their first year, many parents will take the initiative to stay in touch with the class supervisor to talk about their children so that the teacher becomes familiar with their children as soon as possible and gives more attention. Of course, we can understand the feelings of parents, but the times are changing. The 421 family model makes today’s children actually “over-concerned.” In the process of education, I found more and more that some children long for attention and some children long for not