随着社会的发展,因父母外出工作或工作繁忙等原因,由祖父母(外相父母)抚育孙辈的越来越多。“隔代抚养”有利有弊,身为家长,不可不察。隔代抚养的优势是它可以密切隔代关系,沟通隔代心理,促进隔代爱不断加深,对儿童早期监护、养育有利。首先.老年人有较多的育儿经验,有充裕的时间和足够的耐心。其次,祖孙之间的血缘关系和骨肉之情,使祖辈老人会 With the development of society, more and more grandchildren are raised by grandparents (foreign parents) due to their parents’ work or busy work. “Intergenerational support ” has both advantages and disadvantages, as parents, must not be investigated. The advantage of intergenerational support is that it can be closely inter-generational relationship, inter-generational psychology to communicate, to promote inter-generational love continues to deepen the early guardianship of children, parenting favorable. First, older people have more parenting experience, plenty of time and enough patience. Second, the blood relationship between kinship and flesh, so that grandparents will be