据报载:上海闸北某幼儿园曾做过一次测试,请数位幼儿到某指定幼儿手中取玩具,结果有90％以上的幼儿是动手抢或求助老师去取,只有极少数幼儿采取语言商量或用其它玩具换的办法获得成功,许多幼儿一方面只会把布娃娃等玩具假想成自己的伙伴,却不能与真实的同龄伙伴友好相处和交往。不知从什么时候,新闻媒介开始频繁操作起“孤独的独生子女”的新概念来了。日长时久便“炒”出了泡沫,孤独和独生子女似乎成了一对连体婴儿。虽说孤独并不独钟于独生子女,但孤独确是独生子女的影 It is reported that a kindergarten in Zhabei, Shanghai had once conducted a test, asking several children to take toys in the hands of a designated child. As a result, more than 90% of the children were robbed or asked for help from teachers. Only a very small number of children adopted language consultation or use Other toys for the success of the change, many children on the one hand, only dolls and other toys will be imaginary into their own partners, but not with the true partners of the same age friendly and interaction. I do not know when the news media began to operate frequently as a new concept of “lonely only child.” After a long period of time, he “fry” out of the bubble, and loneliness and only child seems to be a pair of Siamese babies. Although loneliness is not the only child, but loneliness is indeed the only child’s shadow