前几天,跟一位私交甚笃的老哥小酌,酒至半醺,老哥突然问我:“老弟你经常写一些婚姻情感类的文章,想必对夫妻相处之道颇有见地,那你说说,保持一段舒服且长久的婚姻最需要的是什么?”我想了一下,随后答道:“首先应该是忠诚,其次应该是责任,如果说舒服的话,最好再能够保持住相互欣赏就OK了。” A few days ago, with a very private brother very drink, wine half-a-pen, brother suddenly asked me: “My brother you often write some articles about marriage and emotional categories, presumably the way the couple get along well, Then you talk about what is most needed to maintain a comfortable and long-lasting marriage? ”I thought for a moment, and then replied:“ First of all, it should be loyalty, secondly, responsibility, and if it is comfortable, Stay and enjoy each other to OK. ”