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人们渴望自己的子女在社会的生存竞争中成为强者,但良好的愿望不见得能收到良好的效果,其重要的原因就在于家教中缺乏现代社会意识和对儿女成才规律性的认识以及符合社会要求的管教方法。在培养教育子女的基本指导思想、培养目标和培养方法上,出现了与杜会脱节的现象。因此,把单纯情感色彩的教育方法上升到科学理性的高度上来,纠正不符合客观实际情况,对子女成才教育期望值过偏过高的心态,把封闭式的家庭教育的栏栅拆除掉,摆脱盲目性,克服片面性,提高自觉性,是当前教育子女成才值得研究的课题。
People want their children to become strong in competition for survival in society, but good wishes are not necessarily able to receive good results. The important reason for this is that the lack of modern social awareness in tutoring and the awareness of the regularity of children’s success as well as their conformity Social requirements of discipline. In cultivating the basic guiding ideology, training objectives and training methods for educating children, there is a phenomenon that is out of step with Du society. Therefore, it is necessary to raise the simple emotional education method to the level of scientific rationality, to correct the mentality that does not conform to objective reality and over-expectation for children’s education, to remove the blind family education fence Sexuality, one-sidedness and self-awareness are the topics worthy of study at present.