在形形色色的家庭矛盾中,自古以来就数婆媳间的纠葛最令人头疼。因婆媳关系紧张导致夫妻离异的为数不少,有的甚至闹出人命案,给家庭和社会带来不利的影响。日本著名律师丹山雅也曾经宣称:“如果谁找到使相互视如仇敌的婆媳友好相处,就等于获得了诺贝尔奖金”。本文试图对这个非常 Among all kinds of family conflicts, disputes between husband and daughter have been the most troubling since ancient times. Due to the tension between husband and wife led to the divorce of a large number of couples, and some even dead human cases, to the family and society adversely affected. The famous Japanese lawyer Yasunari Yamada once declared: “If anyone finds a friend-in-law that is friendly to each other as enemies, it amounts to a Nobel Prize.” This article tried this very much