时下,有一个说法挺时髦,很流行,甚至还有些诱人,说是“别让孩子输在起跑线上”。然而,流行未必就是好事。至少,这种说法如今在一些家长那里,正在成为增加孩子过重负担的理由,成为家长“逼”孩子过早地求学、过滥地学技艺,以至过分地苛求的“经典口头口头禅”。这就有些误导了。所以,有必要对此甄别一番。 Nowadays, there is a saying that is fashionable, very popular, and even a bit tempting, saying “Don’t let children lose at the starting line.” However, popularity is not necessarily a good thing. At the very least, such arguments are now being used by some parents to justify the burden of overweight children, and to become a “classic oral mantra” in which parents “force” their children to study too early, to learn their skills excessively, and to be overly demanding. This is a bit misleading. Therefore, it is necessary to identify this.