咨询室刚成立不久,来了一对母子,说是要咨询一下孩子厌学问题。这位母亲很善谈,一进来就和我寒暄个不停。而男孩却和母亲有很大的反差,目光呆滞,和他打招呼的时候一个劲往母亲身后躲,这让他母亲不好意思了,边把他往前拽边说:“这孩子就是这样,怕见生人,不爱说话,没出息!”被推到我面前的男孩满脸的沮丧,脸涨得通红,一个劲地捏着手指。我忙说:“小孩子嘛,这很正常!”看着男孩,我想到了偶然在网上看到的“有父母的孤儿”这个词,正好是这男孩处境的写照:尽管有父母 Consultation room just set up soon, came a pair of mother and child, that is to consult the child weariness problem. The mother is very good-natured and greets me as soon as I come in. The boy, on the other hand, had a great contrast with his mother, looked dull and kept hiding behind the mother while greeting him. This made his mother feel embarrassed and dragged him forward: “This is the child, Afraid to see strangers, do not talk, no good! ”The boy pushed to the front of me frustrated face, his face rose red, and kept holding his fingers. I’m so busy saying: “It’s normal for children!” “Looking at the boy, I think of the word” orphan with parents "that happened to be seen on the internet, which happened to be a portrayal of the boy’s situation: parents