家长们对孩子的“无私奉献”滋长了孩子的自私和任性,无形中将自私、冷漠和不懂得尊重他人的帽子扣在了他们的头上。仔细想想,其实孩子是无辜的。有许多父母都会问:我们为孩子付出了那么多,为什么孩子就是不懂得如何去爱呢?其实,爱是相互的、是需要培养的。 Parents’ “selfless dedication” to their children has given birth to children’s selfishness and self-willedness, and virtually stuck their heads to selfishness, indifference and ignorance of respect for others. Think about it, in fact, children are innocent. Many parents will ask: We paid so much for the children, why do children do not know how to love it? In fact, love is mutual and needs to be cultivated.