经常会有家长问:我按照专家的各种指点,对孩子苦心教育、引导,却还是培养出了一个熊孩子。如,晚上9点让孩子上床睡觉,放催眠音乐,调暗灯光,孩子却还是要闹到11点才睡。又如,为了不让孩子看电视,我定时给孩子读绘本,可在商店看到开着的电视,孩子还是赖着不走。再如,陪孩子一起抄古文、读名著、周末逛博物馆,但孩子依然对语文毫无兴趣,一写作文就头疼。 Often there will be parents ask: I am in accordance with the guidance of experts, painstaking education of children, to guide, but still cultivate a bear child. For example, let the children go to bed at 9 o’clock in the evening, put hypnosis music, dim the lights, but the children still have to go to sleep until 11 o’clock. In another example, in order to prevent children watching TV, I regularly read the picture book to the children, can see the TV in the store, children still do not want to go. Again, with the children copy ancient times, read the famous, visit the museum over the weekend, but the children are still no interest in the language, a writing on the headache.