据调查,近一半的人认为自己有害羞的毛病,尤其是交际中与异性交往时,许多人都会有不同程度的紧张、拘谨、尴尬的感觉。心理学家的看法是,尽管害羞者可能有这样那样的劣势,但也并非无可取之处。害羞者完成工作大多是被动的,在工作中不是考虑如何取得成功,而是担心不要失败,对承担风险的信心不足;在社交场合,害羞人总感到结交新朋友很困难,因 According to the survey, nearly half of people think they have shy problems, especially in communication and heterosexuality, many people will have varying degrees of tension, cautious, awkward feeling. The psychologist’s view is that although shy people may have such a disadvantage, it is not without merit. Shy people are mostly passive in completing their work. They do not think about success at work. They worry about not failing and lack of confidence in risk-taking. In social situations, shy people find it difficult to make new friends because