这里所说的未来恋人是指虽有意向但尚未确定正式恋爱关系的异性朋友。与未来恋人及早做一次优生谈话,这对下一代的健壮、聪明大有好处。当然,在八字尚无一撇的时候,让未来恋人这样做也许并不现实,但是我们仍然应该提倡、鼓励这样做,而且还要教给他们谈话的方法、内容,因为这是好事,有科学性,比制造出烦恼、悲剧之后,再吃后悔药要好得多。就像如今有人结婚前就预想到离婚,要做财产公证,或老人尚未弥留就早早立下遗嘱一样,是新潮,而不是瞎赶时髦 The future lover mentioned here refers to the opposite sex friend who has not yet established the formal relationship of love though he has the intention. Doing an eugenics conversation with the future lover early will be very beneficial to the next generation. Of course, it may not be realistic for the future lover to do so when the character is not yet written off, but we should still encourage and encourage this. We should also teach them the method and content of the conversation because it is a good thing and a science Sex, than to create trouble, tragedy, eat much more regret medicine. Just as someone now envisions a divorce, a notarization of property, or an old will made as early as a testament, it is trendy, not blind-hipster