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问:不知道别的父母有没有这样的感受?孩子不听话,爱顶嘴。遇到孩子顶嘴,我们简直一点办法也没有。就这么一个宝贝闺女,骂也骂不得,打也打不得。为此,我们很郁闷。请您为我们支招。于海棠答:是真的没有办法吗?不是。因为父母所用的方法在解决孩子顶嘴问题上没有奏效,所以才说没有办法。没有奏效不等于没有办法。当孩子与父母顶嘴时,父母首先要冷静,控制住情绪。如果控制不好,跟孩子一样态度激烈,必定激化矛盾,什么问题也解决不了。
Q: Do not know if other parents have such a feeling? Children disobedient, love to talk back. Encounter the child back to mouth, we simply did not approach. Just such a baby girl, curse also scolded, playing also can not hit. For this reason, we are very depressed. Please move for us. Yu Begonia A: Is there really no way? Because the methods used by the parents did not work to solve the problem of the child’s mouth, they said that there was no solution. Did not work does not mean no solution. When children and parents talk back, parents must first calm down and control emotions. If the control is not good, the same intense attitude with the children, will intensify the contradictions, what problems can not be solved.