记得看一部记录片,其中有香港口音的男游客在泸沽湖的摩梭族客栈大胆问道:“今晚可不可以走婚?”摩梭女子很委婉地指出:“要走,也只能去别的客栈。”摩梭族实行阿夏走婚制度,男女白天在各家劳作,晚上男子不惜走上十几里地,到女友家约会。社会学家认为这是世界罕见的母系社会的形态。跟据我在昆明买的一本书上的记录,摩梭女子,一生平均有7个男友,男的大约交过4个女友。问几个摩梭女性是不是这样,“哪有这么多!”我说数字是经过调查得来的,“有的喜欢吹牛吧”。她们认为,有了孩子的男女恋人都很稳定。她们说,一般男女,一生中有两个情人挺多的,年轻时一个,年纪再长些可能会换一个。“有没有同时有两个情人的?”“有,但是很少。” I remember looking at a documentary, in which male tourists in Hong Kong accent in the Mosuo Inn in Lugu Lake boldly asked: “The wedding can not go tonight?” “Mosuo woman is euphemistically pointed out: ” Can only go to other inn. “Mosuo nationality to implement Asha marry system, men and women work in the house during the day and night, the man went up to dozens of miles to his girlfriend’s home. Sociologists consider this a form of matriarchal society rare in the world. According to a book I bought in Kunming, Mosuo women have an average of 7 boyfriends and 4 males. Asked a few Mosuo women is not the case, ”I have so much! “ I said the figures were investigated, ”Some like to brag“. They think boys and girls lovers who have children are very stable. They said that men and women in general have two lovers in their life, many of whom are young, one at a young age and one at an older age. ”Is there any two lovers at the same time? “ ”There are but few. "