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孩子的成长,当然离不开自由和宽松的环境,也离不开自我成长和自己做主的机会。那么,我们究竟应该怎样给孩子自由呢?自由or无限制,只一线之遥“自由”是目前很多亲子教育书籍和言论中推崇备至的教育理念,也受到很多年轻父母的追捧。但我们会发现,很多家长对这些教育理论和理念的理解有很多偏差,甚至不由自主地滑向天平的另一端,就是要给孩子充分的自由,为了确保自由,孩子可以随心所欲。就拿孩子画画来说吧,很多家长对自由的理解就是,如果孩子想要画画,那么就让他画好了,甚至在地上、墙上、床上画画也行,大人不要限制孩子。如果家长干涉,那么孩子的创造力和想象力就得不到保护。
Children’s growth, of course, can not be separated from the free and relaxed environment, but also inseparable from the self-growth and their own opportunities to make decisions. So, how should we give our children freedom? Free or unlimited, only a short walk away “Freedom ” is a lot of parenting education books and remarks praised the education concept, but also sought after by many young parents. However, we will find that many parents have deviated greatly from their understanding of these educational theories and concepts and even involuntarily slide to the other end of their scales to give their children full freedom and to ensure that their children are free to do so. Take the children to draw pictures, many parents understand the freedom is that if the child wants to draw, then let him paint well, even on the ground, the wall, drawing on the bed, adults do not limit the children. If parents interfere, children’s creativity and imagination can not be protected.