一些家长反映在教育孩子时,遇到许多“意料之外”的问题:原拟对他进行艰苦奋斗教育,带他去农村看看农民的辛苦劳作,可孩子的反映却是:“我国太落后了”。随之一声叹息;原想让孩子在纪律方面严格地约束自己,向他提出一系列要求,采取一系列教育措施,可是孩子却滑向另一极端,变得过于谨慎,过于机械呆板了。 Some parents said that when they educated their children, they encountered many “unexpected” problems: the original intention was to educate him hard-working and take him to the countryside to see the hard work of the peasants. However, the response of the children was: Our country is too backward. " Followed by a sigh; the original want children to discipline themselves strictly bound themselves to him a series of requirements, to take a series of educational measures, but children slide to the other extreme, become too cautious, too mechanical rigid.