女儿小学毕业了,成绩一直名列前茅。有人说我教子有方,有人夸孩子聪明灵气,更多的朋友希望我能谈谈辅导孩子学习的经验。孰不知,我是一个很不称职的父亲,孩子也不是先天聪明,若说有什么体会,那就是不给孩子当“靠椅”。而今的独生子女有一个共同特点:喜欢依赖父母,“自己惯自己”。爱子心切,望子成龙的父母们也乐意围着孩子转,百般迁就,甘当仆佣,无形中助长了孩子的惰性和依赖性。一位上小学五年级的“小公主”,洗脚 Daughter graduated from elementary school, the result has been among the best. Some people say that I teach children well, some people praise children smart aura, more friends hope I can talk about counseling children’s learning experience. I do not know, I am a very incompetent father, the child is not innate clever, if there is any experience, it is not to children as “by chair.” Today’s only child has one common characteristic: like to rely on their parents, “used to yourself.” Aizi hearted, hopeful parents are also willing to turn around the children, be compatible, willing to serve as a servant, in fact contributed to the child’s inertia and dependence. A fifth grade primary “princess”, wash your feet