(一)邻居天天放轻音乐,天天教孩子诵婉约之诗。我思而不得其解,问:“何因?”答曰:“孩子脾气粗暴,故此。”听罢,茅塞顿开。原来,这里面竟暗含着一种“以柔克刚”的教育方法。心理学证实:比较稳定的恬静的环境,温和的语言,清新的诗篇,柔美的音乐等,往往能够使人(特别是孩子)趋于宁静,增强情绪的稳定性,甚至改变人的性格(脾气)。这种方法,显然要比“钢(刚)对钢(刚)”的教育效果好得多。 (A) neighbors to ease the music every day, teach children to recite the poem about grace. I wondered why I asked: “What is the reason?” The answer: “The child temper, therefore.” It turned out that there actually implies a kind of “soft to just” educational approach. Psychology confirms that a relatively stable and quiet environment, mild language, fresh poetry, and soft music often tend to make people (especially children) tend to be serene, enhance the stability of emotions, and even change their personality ). This method is obviously much better than the education of “Steel (Gang) Steel (Gang)”.