如今的社会需要孩子主动地去展示自己,所以做父母的不仅要着力培养孩子自我表现的热情,更要注孩意自己的言行,避免在无意中挫伤孩子的积极性。很多父母都有这样的经历,每次学校有活动的时候,别的孩子积极参与,而自己的孩子却没什么节目;课堂上,别的孩子敢于表现,争着举手发言,而自己的孩子就算被老师叫起来发言,也是勉勉强强的,声音很小……生活中这样的孩子不在少数。私底下,他们能 Today’s society needs children to show themselves on their own initiative. Therefore, parents should not only focus on cultivating children’s enthusiasm for self-expression, but also be careful about what they say and do to avoid inadvertently contaminating their children’s enthusiasm. Many parents have such an experience, each time the school has activities, other children actively involved, but their children have no programs; classroom, other children dare to show, compete to raise their hands to speak, and their children even if Called by the teacher to speak, but also barely strong, the voice is small ... ... life is such a small number of children. Privately, they can