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批评,是教育孩子的一种手段.能否在准确把握孩子心理的基础上批评孩子,其结果是大不相同的。讲究批评的艺术会使孩子改正错误,奋发上进,反之就达不到教育的目的,甚至会影响孩子身心的健康发展。那么,怎样才能使批评有效呢? 一、弄清情况,讲明道理。有的家长认为幼儿年小,即使讲道理孩子也听不懂,因此在孩子有过失时,往往把注意力集中在孩子过失的结果上,而忽视了孩子造成过失的原因。想帮妈妈做事情而打碎盘子与想偷吃东西结果打碎盘子其行为的性质显然是不同的。在许多情况下,孩子的出发点是好的,他很想尝试一下自己的能力,或许是出于好奇.这就需要做家长的
Criticism is a means of educating children, and the outcome of criticizing children on the basis of accurately grasping children’s psychology is very different. Pay attention to the art of criticism will make children correct mistakes, make progress, on the contrary can not achieve the purpose of education, and even affect the child’s physical and mental health development. So how can we make the criticism effective? First, we must clarify the situation and make it clear. Some parents think that young children are young and do not understand even when they are reasonable. Therefore, when children have negligence, they tend to focus on the result of child negligence and neglect the cause of child negligence. The nature of the behavior of breaking up a plate, trying to help a mom to do something, and trying to steal a plate of food, is apparently different. In many cases, the child’s starting point is good, he would like to try out their own capabilities, perhaps out of curiosity. This requires parents to do