——尊重的内容有很多，总的一点是，要把孩子当作一个人来看待，而不仅仅是一个孩子。具体的方法是将心比心，我们不喜欢别人如何对待我们，我们也就不要用这样的方式去对待孩子。 ——其实有时孩子在物质上需要的并不是那么多，他们需要父母对他们精神上的关爱。 ——如果您想让孩子聪明起来，就不要说孩子怎么那么笨；如果您想让孩子成为一个热爱学习的孩子，就不要说孩子除了不喜欢学习什么都喜欢。 ——如果我们在交流的过程中，要求孩子绝对地服从，不能发表自己的意见，那么当他面对别人的时候，他会失去自信，没有勇气也没有意识发表自己的意见，尤其是不同意见。 ——与子女有效沟通需要有一些技巧，但是更重要的是态度。在交流中对孩子真诚、信任、接纳、尊重的态度是十分重要的。 - There are a lot of respect, the general point is that the child should be treated as a person, not just a child. The specific method is to heart, we do not like how others treat us, we also do not use this way to treat children. In fact, sometimes children do not need so much material needs, they need their parents for their spiritual love. - If you want to make your child smart, do not say how stupid your child is; if you want to make your child a learning-loving child, do not say that your child likes it except to learn something. - If we require the child to be absolutely obedient and unable to express his opinion in the process of communication, then he will lose confidence, courage and consciousness to express his opinions when he faces others, especially different opinions . - Effective communication with children requires some skill, but more importantly, attitude. The attitude of sincere, trust, acceptance and respect to children in communication is very important.