时下,一些年轻父母出于种种原因,生下孩子,甩手交给了奶奶或姥姥,有的干脆把孩子送到外地去,直到孩子长大了才接回身边,目的是监督读书,让孩子按父母的愿望去发展。于是问题接踵而至,因为孩子毕竟是灵与肉的统一体,不是随意再塑所能奏效的。这里从众多的心理咨询个案中抽出几个例子,也许对年轻父母有所启发。 Nowadays, some young parents give birth to their children for various reasons, handing them over to grandma or grandmother, and some simply send their children to the field to take them back until the children grow up. The purpose is to supervise the reading and let the children press Parents wish to develop. So the problems come one after another, because the children, after all, are the unity of the spirit and the flesh, and they are not free rein to be effective. Here are a few examples drawn from a multitude of counseling cases that may inspire young parents.