洛克认为,家长权威可以归纳为“爱”与“畏”两个字,儿童刚懂事的时候是树立家长权威的最佳时机。他指出,父母树立和维系家长权威应从以下几个方面努力:巧妙利用“称誉”;摈弃盛怒呵斥;树立良好榜样,勿以己之不欲施于儿童;给予儿童充分自由,搞好亲子关系;当儿童长大后,用友爱维系家长权威。 Locke believes that parental authority can be summed up as “love” and “fear” two words, children just sensible when the best time to establish parental authority. He pointed out that parents should strive to establish and maintain the authority of parents in the following aspects: clever use of “reputation”; rejection of indignity and scorn; establishment of a good example that should not be done to children; giving children full freedom and good parentage; When children grow up, UF love to maintain parental authority.