人言可畏,有时随口的一句话也有可能深深伤害别人。父母为了教育孩子常常也会说出各种责备、埋怨甚至狠毒的话语,虽然父母的出发点是希望孩子更好,可是俨然不知道自己已经长了一张“乌鸦嘴”。小孩子懂什么,还是听妈妈的话父母总是站在教导者的立场上说话:“孩子什么都不懂,该听我们的,至少在他们十岁前。”他们把孩子的思维理解为成人的思维,加以命令,加以说服,加以训 Words awesome, sometimes casually a word may also deeply hurt others. In order to educate their children, parents often say all kinds of reproofs, blame and even vicious words. Although their parents’ starting point is to hope their children are better, they just do not realize they have already had a “crow mouth.” When children understand or listen to their mothers, parents always stand in the position of the instructor: “Children do not understand anything at all, at least until they are ten years old.” They interpret the child’s thinking as Adult thinking, command, persuasion, training