现如今中小学生中绝大多数都是独生子女,由于受各方面的影响,他们中大多数存在独立性差、责任心差、虚荣心强等弱点。因此,如何对他们进行有效教育,便显得尤为重要,笔者认为:作为教师,必须注重了解学生中独生子女的心态,要防止和克服中小学阶段独生子女中出现的消极心理,以高超的教育艺术,培养他们良好的心理品质和行为能力。一、教师自身要有良好的教育心态教师要关心每一个学生,充分理解、信任他们,要把对方与自 Nowadays, the vast majority of primary and secondary school students are only children. Due to various influences, most of them have weaknesses such as poor independence, sense of responsibility and vanity. Therefore, how to educate them effectively is particularly important. In my opinion, as a teacher, we must pay attention to understanding the mentality of the only child among the students, and prevent and overcome the negative psychology appearing in the only child of primary and secondary school. With superb educational art , Develop their good psychological quality and ability to act. First, the teacher must have a good educational mentality Teachers should care about every student, fully understand and trust them, we should take each other and self