要想使自己的子女健康地成长,成为品德高尚、才华出众的人,就必须遵循教育规律和儿童身心发展规律,根据小孩的特点,机智灵活地综合运用各种正确的家庭教育方法。榜样法即父母和长辈等树立良好形象,发挥表率作用,以自身的语言、行动、思想作风去影响和感染子女的教育方法。常言道:父母是孩子的镜子,孩子是父母的影子,有其父必有其子。孔子说:“其身正,不令而行;其身不正,虽令不从。”这些都充分说明了父母以身作则的重要性和必要性。因此,做父母的若想孩子做什么样的人,自己就应该先做好什么样的 If we want to make our children grow healthily and become noble and talented people, we must follow the laws of education and the laws governing the physical and mental development of children, and use all kinds of correct family education methods wisely and flexibly according to the characteristics of children. The model law, that is, parents and elders, set a good image and play an exemplary role in influencing and infecting their children’s education methods with their own language, actions and ideological style. As the saying goes: parents are children’s mirrors, children are the shadow of parents, and their fathers have their children. Confucius said: “The body is correct and does not make sense; it is not correct, though not amenable.” All these fully illustrate the importance and necessity of setting an example for parents. Therefore, if parents want children to do what kind of person, they should do what kind of