要想教育好孩子,不仅要多学习相关的知识,还要注意摸索规律。自己摸索出的规律往往比从书本上学到的方法更有使用价值。我曾是教员,喜欢琢磨这方面的问题。我发现了这样一个规律:孩子普遍具有较强的逆反心理,打自己心中的小九九,正面教育的效果往往并不奏效。常常会产生这样的 To educate children, not only to learn more about the relevant knowledge, but also pay attention to explore the law. The laws we find themselves are often more useful than the methods learned from books. I used to be a teacher, like to ponder this problem. I found such a law: children generally have strong rebellious psychology, playing in their hearts, the effect of positive education often does not work. Often will produce this