读者小菁问:我高中毕业后到广东打工三年。今年五月母亲发电报给我,说父亲生病叫我速回家。我回家见家里正大摆宴席,庆祝我家招赘同村青年吴大勇为婿。我大感意外,气恼不已。原来父母觉得我家无儿子,吴大勇勤劳诚实,他又愿意男到女家,就不征求我的意见,竟自定下婚期,并于前一 Xiao Jing asked readers: I graduated from high school to work in Guangdong for three years. In May this year, my mother telegram to me that his father was sick and called me home quickly. I went home to see the family was a feast, to celebrate my family with the village young Cui Yong son-in-law. I am very surprised, annoyed. The original parents think my family has no son, Wu Dayong hardworking and honest, he is willing to male to female, do not seek my advice, actually set the wedding date, and in the previous one