传统认为《红楼梦》是一本为女性立言之书，是对女性的肯定歌颂。其重要的依据之一便是贾宝玉的一句话：“女儿是水做的骨肉，男子是泥做的骨肉。我见了女儿便清爽，见了男子便觉浊臭逼人。”（第二回）我以为，作为小说中的人物———贾宝玉的男女观，并非就等同于作者的观点 Traditionally, “Dream of Red Mansions” is a book for women to make a statement. It is an affirmation to women. One of its important basis is Jia Baoyu’s sentence: “Daughter is the flesh of water, and the man is the flesh of mud. I met her daughter and she was refreshed. When I met a man, I felt it was stenching.” (Second Back) I think that as a character in the novel, Jia Baoyu’s view of men and women is not equivalent to the author’s view.