经常听到人们说,沉默是金。沉默有很多好处,保持沉默比说许多废话更有益处和涵养。正因为如此,中国人历来鼓励沉默。历代哲人在谈及处世时,总要求慎言,作为君子,不要对人对事妄加评说,有些事自己肚里明白就行,有些话能不说就不说。更有许多时候,碰到别人的误解,遇到别人的造谣,沉默确实有力量,能让误解自然消失,能让谣言 Often hear people say that silence is golden. There are many benefits to silence, and keeping silence is more beneficial and nurturing than many nonsense. Because of this, the Chinese have always encouraged silence. Speaking of dynasties, the philosophers of the ages always asked for cautious words. As gentlemen, they should not comment on things improperly. Some things understood themselves on their own, and some said they did not say anything. More often, people encounter misunderstandings, encounters with other people’s rumors, silence does have power, allowing misunderstandings to disappear naturally, allowing rumors