有一个女学生,她中小学期间成绩一直很好,同学朋友的称赞,使她养成了自负自傲的性格。可是,当她考进人才荟萃的大学后,情况发生了变化。她的成绩顶多不过是中等,有时还被挤到下面去。她深感惶恐不安,无地自容。于是,她感到活着失去了意义,便寻了短见。 这位女学生的死固然有很多教训。但从心理上来说,人的情绪总有一种处于平衡状态的需求。当心理平衡时,人就会感到心情愉快,精力充沛,信心百倍。而心理失调,则会令你情绪多变,喜怒无常,乃至一时糊涂, There is a female student, her grades during primary and secondary school have been very good, the praise of classmates and friends, so that she developed a proud character. However, the situation changed when she entered a talented university. At best, her grades are medium and sometimes pushed below. She was deeply disturbed and embarrassed. So she felt lost sense of meaning, they find short-sighted. The girl’s death, of course, has a lot of lessons. But psychologically, people’s emotions always have a balance of needs. When the psychological balance, people will feel happy, energetic, confident. The psychological disorders, it will make you moody, moody, and sometimes confused,