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帮助孩子树立责任感的一个途径,是让他们懂得需要和愿望不同,父母应满足孩子的需要,而让孩子自己去实现自己的愿望,许多父母却常常不给孩子创造这样的机会,他们整天忙于为孩子做这做那,简直是事无巨细,无所不包,孩子稍有差失,就赶紧帮忙。这些就是在现代社会中大量存在的“超级”父母。这些家长认为,父母应当处处都为孩子着想,为他们做一切事情,而恰恰由于这样,他们会妨碍自己的孩子成为自立型人才。让我们看看下面这个典型的“超级”父母“帮忙”
One way to help children develop a sense of responsibility is to make them understand that needs and wishes are different. Parents should meet the needs of their children and let the children fulfill their own wishes. Many parents often do not give their children such opportunities, For kids to do this, it is simply sizeable, all-encompassing, the child a little lost, hurriedly help. These are the “super” parents that are abundant in modern society. These parents think that parents should always think about their children and do everything for them, and precisely because of this, they will prevent their children from becoming self-sufficient. Let’s take a look at this typical “super” parent “help”