虽然我们期待所有的孩子都能够从小自信、自立和自强,可总是有一些孩子由于后天教育的不得当,变得缺乏自信。他们在没有做事之前就急于否定自己,在没有努力之前就承认自己“不行”“不可能”。这些孩子以后会变得更加敏感、多疑、怯弱,可能在以后的人生道路上会丧失很多机会,甚至还会产生一些心理问题。所以,老师和家长须在孩子小的时候,注意弥补他们的不足,让他们变得更加自信和勇敢。 Although we expect all children to be self-confident, self-reliant and self-reliant, there may always be children who become less confident due to the late education. They were eager to deny themselves before they did anything, admitting themselves “No” or “Impossible” before they worked hard. These children will become more sensitive, suspicious and cowardly in the future. They may lose many opportunities in the future and even have some psychological problems. Therefore, teachers and parents should pay attention to making up for their shortcomings when they are young and make them more confident and courageous.