在美国从事博士后研究的小儿子夫妇俩为我们添了个小孙女。儿子给她取了个中文名字叫成农,一个英文名字叫 Shannon。还是在小孙女出生前,我就建议儿媳按东方育儿方法抚养,让婴儿跟随母亲睡。因为婴儿听惯母亲的心音,接触母亲的肌肤有安全感,能使婴儿身心愉快,睡得也安稳。可是儿媳还是入乡随俗,让初生婴儿单独睡一间卧室。孩子的床边安放一监听器,深夜孩子哭起来,父母就会被唤醒。这样,从小减少孩子对父母的依赖,使孩子增强独立生活能力。去年7月,我们应邀去美国探亲,小孙女正是牙牙 The younger son and the couple who did the postdoctoral research in America added a little granddaughter to us. Son gave her a Chinese name is farming, an English name Shannon. Or before my little granddaughter was born, I suggested that the daughter-in-law should be raised in accordance with the Eastern Parenting Method, so that the infant could sleep with her mother. Because babies listen to the mother’s heart sound, contact with the mother’s skin a sense of security, make the baby happy, sleep soundly. However, the daughter-in-law or as the Romans do, so that a newborn baby sleeping alone in a bedroom. The child’s bed to place a listener, crying at night children, parents will be awakened. In this way, childhood children’s dependence on parents to reduce, so that children enhance their ability to live independently. Last July, we were invited to the United States to visit relatives. The little granddaughter is just a tooth