血浓于水,亲子之间结下仇怨似乎让人难以理解。造成这一结果,是由于在孩子的成长过程中,父母没有处理好亲子矛盾造成的。在婴儿期,最容易发生的亲子矛盾是对孩子情感需要的忽视。一位母亲说自己在孩子的吃喝上从不含 Blood thicker than water, hatred between parent-child seems difficult to understand. This result is due to the fact that parents did not handle the contradictions between their parents and children during their child’s growth. In infancy, the most common contradiction between parents and children is the neglect of children’s emotional needs. One mother said she never included children’s food and drink