“跑”和“休息”在生活中本是意义相反的两个词,但在某种情景之下,它们不再对立,而是统一的。当你处在危险之中,或者你是一个站在跑道上的运动员,你要想休息,就必须去跑,此刻休息恰恰成了跑的目的了。其实不仅仅是“跑”和“休息”有这样的对立与统一关系,就是在我们辅导孩子学习时也可以发现并利用这样的关系。例如,我们经常督促孩子要及时预习和复习功课,并且反复强调预习和复习的重要性,但却很少有孩子能够真正坚持做到及时预习与复习。为什么呢?因为孩子本来功课比较繁重,玩的时间就少,再让他在写完作业后抽出时间预习、复习,他实在是不情愿。再加上预习复习与否并没有外在的、硬性的检查指标,容易使孩子忽略它们的真正作用。因此,“及 ”Running “ and ”Rest “ are two words of opposite meanings in life, but under certain circumstances, they are no longer opposite but unified. When you are in danger, or you are an athlete on the runway, you have to go for a rest, and it’s just the goal of the break. In fact, not only ”running “ and ”rest “ there is such a relationship between the opposition and unity, that is, when we learn to teach children can also find and use such a relationship. For example, we often urge our children to timely preview and review their homework, and repeatedly emphasize the importance of preparation and review. However, few children really insist on timely preview and review. Why? Because the child was homework more heavy, less time to play, let him finish his homework after taking the time to preview, review, he is reluctantly. Coupled with the preview review or not and no external, rigid inspection indicators, easy to make children ignore their true role. Therefore, ”and