编辑同志:我的朋友林丽曾和学友李某有过恋爱关系,后来因为性格不和最终分手了。但是在林丽与新近结识的男友相处过程中,经常遭到李某的无理干涉,她感到非常痛苦,我劝她求助法律帮助,然而生性懦弱的她却说:“这样的事情法院不会管。”请问:林丽的问题该如何处理?“告诉才处理”是什么意思?晓岚 Editor’s Comrade: My friend Lin Li has had a relationship with his fellow student Lee, and eventually broke up because of disagreement. However, in the process of getting along with her newly-acquainted boyfriend, Lin Li often suffered unjustified interference by Lee. She felt very painful. I advised her to turn to legal aid. However, her weakness, however, said: “The court will not control such matters . ”Excuse me: How to deal with the problem of Lin Li?“ ”Tell before handling" What does it mean? Xiaolan