一位企业管理者曾跟我说:“以前觉得工作特别辛苦,之后是越来越辛苦,但奇怪的是,却觉得比以前幸福得多。”我问他为什么,他的回答是:“现在自己终于能诚实地面对自己了。”和我预想的答案一模一样。他抿了一口加水的酒,深有感触地对我说:“从工作层面上考虑,是越来越辛苦了,但是就个人而言却是越来越幸福了。”选择做真实的自己,从某种程度上来说,也就是接受自己的命运。例如,当被告知得了不治之症时,有人会失去理智大喊大 A business manager once told me: “I used to think that work was particularly hard and then it was getting harder and harder, but weirdly, I felt much happier than before.” “I asked him why he answered: ”Now I can finally face myself honestly.“ ”The exact answer I expected. He took a soft drink and said with deep feeling to me: “At work, it is getting harder and harder, but personally, it’s getting more and more happy.” Choose to be true To myself, to some extent, is to accept my own destiny. For example, someone who is told to have an incurable disease will lose his reason and shout loudly