当代著名的伦理学家哈贝马斯提出了商谈伦理学,认为交往行动实际上是主体间以语言为媒介的商谈关系。人与人之间伦理关系的调整,共同道德规范的认同和维护是通过商谈形成的。这一理论对建构现代家庭伦理关系有重要的启示作用。 Habermas, a famous contemporary ethic scientist, put forward the ethics of negotiation. He thinks that the communicative action is actually the language-based negotiation between the main bodies. The adjustment of the ethical relations among people, the common moral norms of identity and maintenance are formed through negotiations. This theory has an important enlightenment on the construction of modern family ethical relations.