在我20岁还读着大学时,我遇到了丹,我未来的丈夫。但我们没正式结过婚。实际上,连订婚也没有,根本谈不上。我称他为我未来的丈夫,只是因为他曾经对我而言是如此地重要。我们在一起五年,断断续续地约会,一直以来,我都坚信我们终有一天会结为连理,养育视力不太好的孩子,并最终不再伤害对方。在那些年里,我们没有住在一起,也并非住得很近;然而通过脸谱网、谷歌邮箱、谷歌聊天功能和智能手机,但凡心头涌起冲动或因醉酒而产生奇怪念头时,身处世界任何一个地方的我们都能在任何一台设备上 When I was 20 and I was in college, I met Dan and my future husband. But we did not officially get married. In fact, there is no engagement at all. I call him the husband of my future simply because he was so important to me. We’ve been together for five years, intermittently, and I’ve always believed that we will one day be able to become law-abiding, raise children with poor eyesight, and eventually will not hurt each other. During those years, we did not live together and did not live very close together. However, with Facebook, Google Mail, Google Chat, and smartphones, we were in the world when we were impulsive or strangely drunk We can be on any one device from anywhere