我周围有很多家长都抱怨自己为孩子的成长付出了一切,可是孩子却不理解自己,经常顶嘴,还总觉得家长不爱自己。其实,不是孩子不懂事,也不是家长做的不够,而是家长忽略了一点,那就是爱的背后是尊重。记得儿子上小学一年级时,他曾经拿我给他买的一个名牌笔袋换了同桌小钢的铁铅笔盒。我问儿子为什么要换,儿子说我给他的笔袋没有图案,而且 Many parents around me complain that they have paid for the growth of their children, but their children do not understand themselves. They often talk about their heads and always feel that parents do not love themselves. In fact, children are not sensible, nor are parents doing enough. Instead, parents overlook the fact that behind love is respect. I remember when my son was in grade one of elementary school, he used the name pencil case I bought for him to change the iron pencil box at the same table. I asked why my son wanted to change, and my son said I did not give him a pencil case, but also