一、学生心灵的成长需要欣赏孩子的心灵像久旱的田地,渴望被家长和教师的欣赏,渴望肯定的甘霖。有人可能会提出疑问,一味地肯定孩子,会让孩子听不进意见相反的话,会让孩子过分地在意别人的评价。这种疑问的错误是没有把表扬和鼓励分开。表扬和鼓励有很大的不同。表扬是夸赞孩子这个人本身,而鼓励是把夸赞重心放在孩子所做的事情上。班上一名叫刘天爽的学生,是一个非常调皮,说话 First, students need to appreciate the spiritual growth of children’s hearts like a long drought in the field, eager to be parents and teachers appreciate the longing for the affirmation of the rain. Someone may ask questions, blindly affirming the child, letting the child not listen to the opposite opinion, and making the child overly concerned about the evaluation of others. The mistake of this kind of doubt is not to separate recognition from encouragement. There are big differences in recognition and encouragement. Praise is a praise of the child itself, and encouragement is to focus on the things that children do. A classmate named Liu Tian Shuang is a very naughty, talkative