自古以来,人们相信这样的说法:打是疼,骂是爱,不打不骂不成才。可是,读过小说《红楼梦》的人都熟悉这样的故事情节:曹雪芹细致地描写过贾宝玉的多次挨打,原因是他父亲贾政恨他不好好读书、不想做官,总是在女孩子堆儿里混日子。可是打的结果如 Since ancient times, people believe this argument: fight is hurt, curse is love, do not hit no scold merit. However, people who read the novel A Dream of Red Mansions are all familiar with the story of Cao Xueqin’s detailed description of how Jia Baoyu was beaten many times because his father, Jia Zhenghan, did not want to study hard and did not want to be an official, Child heap mixed day. But as a result of playing