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儿子今年4岁,我给他规定了固定的看电视时间。但是我下班回家儿子主动告诉我,奶奶白天额外让他看了一会儿电视,打破了我们固定好的时间和规律。面对孩子如此坦诚,我该用什么方式对待?是表扬他诚实,还是该告诉他约定好的时间要遵守才行?孩子为什么主动承认?真的是出于诚实?还是怕奶奶先说,索性不如自己先说,争取个“坦白从宽”?即使是这样,我们也要对他的诚实予以表扬。表扬他诚实时,一定要照顾奶奶的形象,否则孩
My son is 4 years old and I gave him a fixed time watching TV. But I came home from work and took the initiative to tell me that my grandmother made him watch for an extra TV during the day and broke the fixed time and rules. In the face of the child so frank, what should I treat? Is to recognize him honest, or should he tell him to agree a good time to abide by the job? Why do children take the initiative to admit? Really out of honesty? Better to say first, fight for a “confession”? Even so, we must praise his honesty. Praise him honest, we must take care of the image of grandmother, or child