人生在世,以我的体验说,若要活得恬逸,大约少不了两个原则:做事,可以认真一点;生活,则可以马虎一点。托翁的《初期回忆》里有两句话:『人生不是一种享乐,而是一桩十分沉重的工作。』这看似很政治色彩的,其实是一种心理写照。富于责任心的人,只有做事是尽心尽力的了,他才觉得安然。相反的,在生活上若过于计较,什么事都那么『叫真儿』,恐怕是难以活得自在的。世上不如意的事常八九,若针尖对着麦芒过日子,那心理上是不会有太平的时候的。怎么活法才好呢?我看是不抱怨,不空想,不无端的忌恨或眼馋别人。既可以去竞争,去争取,去改善自己的处境,又十分客观地面对实际。抱着三 Life is alive, in my experience, said that if you want to live comfortably, about two principles: work, you can be more serious; life, you can sloppy. There are two sentences in his initial memory: "Life is not a pleasure, it is a very heavy work. This seemingly very political, in fact, is a psychological portrayal. Full of responsibility, only work is dedication, and he felt safe. On the contrary, if we care too much about life and what is true, we may find it hard to survive. The unhappy things in the world often 89, if the tip against the straw, that psychologically there will be no peace time. How to live law is good? I think it is not complain, not fantasy, not unwarranted avoid envy or envious of others. We can go to competition, fight for things, improve our own situation, and face the reality very objectively. Hold three