敢于直面现实的人,才会收获更有意义的人生。看看世界上最幸福的人,或者看看社区里最幸福的人,我们来作一个研究,结果往往会发现,最成功的人不一定是最幸福的人。小时候,大人告诉我们,如果想要幸福的话,就要挣很多钱、要出名。有的人真的做到了,他很成功,很有钱,要什么都有。但是你会发现一些奇怪的事情:他刚开始非常开心,然后快乐曲线开始下滑,又回到原来的水平线。所以,当一个人什么都有了的时候,却可能发现自己还是不幸福,也不快乐。 Dare to face the reality of people, will gain a more meaningful life. If we look at the happiest people in the world or look at the happiest people in the community, we will come up with a study. The result will often find that the most successful people are not necessarily the happiest people. As a child, adults tell us that if you want happiness, you have to make a lot of money to be famous. Some people really do, he is very successful, very rich, have everything. But you will find something weird: he was very happy at first, and then the fun curve started to slide back to the original level. So, when a person has everything, they may find themselves unhappy or unhappy.