有一次在舞场跳舞,遭到一位女士的拒绝,当时很懊恼,后来我想了许多,终于排除了遭拒绝后的不良情绪。在生活中经常碰到许多这样的人,我便采取主动与他们热情对话的方法,结果不但没遭到拒绝,反而消除了对抗情绪。 遇到什么事,千万不要死脑筋。生活中有许多机遇可能改善人际关系。要抓住各种机遇,利用一句话,一个微笑,一个眼神,递上一份小礼物,办一件助人为乐的事,用这些积极的行动,改变周围人对我们的敌对态度与情绪,千万不要消极。同样,改善同事关系巧就巧在“积极”上,把消极因素转化为积极因素,做矛盾的转化工作。 Once on the dance floor dancing, was a lady’s refusal, was very upset, then I think a lot, and finally ruled out the negative emotions after being rejected. I often encounter many such people in my life and I take the initiative to engage in a passionate approach to them. As a result, they have not been denied, but have instead eliminated confrontation. What to do, do not die. There are many opportunities in life that can improve relationships. We should seize every opportunity, use one sentence, one smile, one look, handing a small present and doing a helpful thing. Using these positive actions, we can change the hostile attitude and emotions of the people around us. Do not be negative. Similarly, improving co-worker relations cleverly happens to be “positive”, transforming negative factors into positive ones and doing contradictory transformations.